I'd just like your opinions on how to handle this. I really like this girl and would like to try a potential relationship with her. Join Date Dec Gender: Location Copenhagen Age 51 Posts Clearly you have already shown her that she needs to do precious little to keep you hanging around, so perhaps you have shown her TOO much interest too early?
Why would you even consider an LTR with her at this early stage? What has she shown you that makes you think that you are compatible and will make great partners? I very much doubt that this will end in a balanced, loving relationship in the long run. So to answer your main question: How you deal with her?
She likes the thrill of the chase, and if you want her to chase you - start seeing other women. Erase that whole idea of an LTR with her. It fucks everything up for you. One day at the time. Join Date Sep Gender: Age 49 Posts Originally Posted by 5for5. Thanks for the replies and advice guys.
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I always appreciate the advice you guys give on here. I might have been a little needy, but there have been 2 instances where I've declined her invitations to hang out. So its not like I'm always available for her She has this completely magnetic personality and we get on really well. I will leave her alone for 2 weeks and concentrate on other stuff. Join Date Jun Gender: Originally Posted by lassebauer.
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Women are unforgiving mate and by that, I mean, they are emotional. So, they won't remember what you did back then, but present now.
So it has to be consistent. Share Share this post on Digg Del. Originally Posted by Estate.
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From what you've told us it sounds like this girl likes hanging out with you since you've gone out with her a few times. She's also physically attracted to you since you've had sex. In my opinion it sounds like one of those situations where she's interested in you but not really into the idea of getting serious for whatever reason. Or if you're afraid of being that forward then you can pull back and wait for her to initiate for once. Either scenario works it's just a matter of preference. Last edited by ; 19th February at 4: Its hard to tell if shes not interested or if shes pulling back after sex on what you wrote.
Only time will tell I have found alot of guys that show a lot of interest in me for whatever length of time back off after we have sex You know how many men out there lie about their motives and stop becoming interested after sex? If shes dated before this has prob happened to her. Many men they want something real but then their behavior afterwards says otherwise so its all an act. As much as I like sex, I dont put out early because of this headache. IMO, you should be contacting her first but not ALL the time If I slept with a guy and he stopped contacting me afterwards Id assume hes not so into me and that has usually been the case Thats just me though and I dont know if thats the case here.
Just some insight Why do you think she doesnt appreciate your contact? Thanks, Yeah, that's how it feels.
Like she's pulled back a little because we slept together so fast. I think I did make it known I like her but I'm not sure if she bought it or not, she might be holding out to wait and see. I'm afraid of being "too cold" since she might just think that yeah, this guy just wanted the sex and went cold when I didn't get more.
But I also don't want to be "clingy" by being in too much contact.
Usually if a girl starts to go cold, I'll cut her loose, but in this case I'm actually really into her and want to see if it could go anywhere so I feel like "chasing her" assuming that's what she's looking for me to do, I just don't want to come off like the guy who doesn't know when to give up if she's not interested. Originally Posted by pbjbear. I'm likely more conservative than most on this point, but I always let the guy contact me, for at least the first month.
In my experience, if he really likes me, he'll contact me daily from the outset. And if he's not that into me, he'll contact less. I naturally lose interest in the guys who don't contact me much. Personally, I don't understand the hesitancy to communicate with someone when you were comfortable enough to swap body fluids and have sex. An internet forum of strangers will have even less insight into what is going on than you do.
Why don't you talk to her? Originally Posted by Cutiepie Originally Posted by It's a balancing act that's hard to maintain when the girl is giving you mixed signals. Makes no difference now. She told me tonight she's not interested.
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Funny, guys usually get the rap for "just being out for one thing". Women read alot of the same psychology books.
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The games they play are this. Tease Hard to get Hot n cold Mouse Cat in mouse This is common for women in their 20 in the hunt for A man they feel they have to test a man , make him chase Keep his interest.
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